It is astonishing how often ANE is smeared on here, largely by people who seem to have literally zero idea what they're talking about. It's often pushed by either/or people who bizarrely need to wave a flag.
MLX doesn't use ANE for the single and only reason that Apple hid the ANE behind CoreML, exposing zero public APIs to utilize ANE directly, and MLX -- being basically an experimental grounds -- wanted to hand roll their implementation around the GPU / CPU. They literally, directly state this as the reason. People inventing technical reasons for why MLX doesn't use ANE are basically just manufacturing a fan fiction. This isn't to say that ANE would be suitable for a lot of MLX tasks, and it is a highly optimized, power-efficient inference hardware that doesn't work for a lot of purposes, but its exclusion is not due to technically unsuitability.
Further, the ANE on both my Mac and my iPhone is constantly attenuating and improving my experience. Little stuff like extracting contents from images. Ever browse in Safari and notice that you can highlight text in the image almost instantly after loading a page? Every image, context and features detected effortlessly. Zero fans cycling up. Power usage at a trickle. It just works. It's the same way that when I take a photo I can search "Maine Coon" and get pictures of my cats, ANE used for subject and feature extraction. Computational photography massively leverages the ANE.
At a trickle of power.
Scam? Yeah, I like my battery lasting for more than a couple of minutes.
Apple intended ANE to bring their own NN augmentations to the OS and thus the user experience, and even the availability in CoreML as a runtime engine is more limited than what Apple's own software can do. Apple basically limits the runtime usage to ensure that no third party apps inhibit or restrict Apple's own use of this hardware.