There is the problem of the occupied territories (which Israel's law considers occupied in alignment with international practices) where people in limbo due to the unresolved status. That's not apartheid (despite Israeli citizens being treated differently in those territories). Maybe legally and morally questionable but how we got here and why we can't fix this is also relevant.
Ireland and Poland (as well as many other countries) are ethno-states too. Did they stop being democracies?
Last I checked, the vote of israeli non-Jews counted the same way as the israeli Jewish one.
How can Israel be an apartheid state if Arabs in Israel routinely take highest positions in both public and private sector? It makes zero sense.
This is absolutely and categorically false by any standard not directly set by islamists or their woke buddies.