On my Facebook account, I scrolled through 30 posts without seeing anything thirsty. Mostly synthesizer stuff, stuff for my kids' schools, and a few posts from friends. It definitely knows I'm male because the ads are for men's apparel.
Instagram was the same.
I never ever watch reels or other short form video, so maybe that has something to do with it.
I finally got the deletion thing to not error out and am almost at the end of the 30 day deletion period.
Most of the reported ads don't get taken down by Google, although they are very obviously AI porn ads.
Honestly it's a pretty great instagram experience.
And yes I'm a middle aged male so no matter what the smut comes back (at least I get it in multiple languages too?)
Just a few minutes ago we were discussing bikini options for an upcoming stay in Rio. And how she needs new ones as the ones I found from my feed were getting old.
I guess one advantage I have is being a man and not male-identified. Maybe she has stereotyped me and is expecting me to act like a man.