Maybe people don't agree with ,,nuke them'', but OK with USA starting nuclear experiments again (which USA is preparing for right bow), which is a clear escalation.
Russia is waiting for USA to start the nuclear experiments to start them itself for defending itself to be able to do a counterstrike if needed.
After that there will be no stopping of Japan, South Korea and Iran rightfully wanting to have their own nukes.
You don't have to have the ,,nuke them'' thinking, even one step of escalation is enough to get to a disastrous position.
And I'm afraid they'll be far from the only ones...
"most people" are not in the positions that matter. A significant portion of the people who are in a position to advocate for such a decision believe that:
- killing people sends em to heaven/hell where they were going anyway; and that this is also true for any of your own citizens that get killed by a counterstrike.
- the end of the world will be the best day ever
If polling were to reveal a majority of either party were more open to nuclear strikes than their predecessors, that gives policy makers a signal and an opening.
Deescalation stopped because of people in general not caring enough (and making money of being the biggest power), not because of administrations that come and go.
As to the immigration situation: we know that governments are not executing in general how they should be, but people are able to enforce some policies if they fight together united and in agreement. But right now they are not in agreement.
There was only one administration with that opportunity, really; Truman.
Every other administration has had a nuclear armed Russia in play.
Attempts to do what you describe were still quite common, starting as early as the 1950s. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_arms_race#Treaties
55% of Republicans say ICE's efforts are about right; 23% think they don't go far enough [1]. There is limited evidence Trump has lost touch with his supporters on this issue. The question is if this is this GOP's pronoun issue–popular in the base but toxic more broadly.
[1] https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/where-americans-stand-immigratio...