Use this software, it's amazing, it will change your life!"
reply"Oh but don't use it for A, or B, or C (even though it says to use it for A, B, and C): it will ruin your life"
Yes and yes!
replyA spouse can be amazing, or can destroy your life. Would you use that as an argument against marriage?
"Marrying? But what about cheating?"
"Easy! Just murder your spouse before that ever happens!"
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