And it's not like I don't care about performance. If I see a small query taking more than a fraction of a second when testing in SSMS or If I see a larger query taking more than a few seconds I will dig into the query plan and try to make changes to improve it. For code that I took from testing in SSMS and moved into a Dapper query, I wouldn't have noticed performance issues from that move if the slowdown was never particularly large.
Most people are not aware of how Dapper maps types under the hood; once you know, you start being careful about it.
Nothing to do with LLMs, just plain old learning through mistakes.