When you're adding support for a new Internet address protocol that's widely agreed to be the new one, it absolutely is. Compared to what end-users get, ISPs buy very high quality gear. The rate of gear change may be lower than at end-user sites but because they're paying far, far more for the equipment, it's very likely to have support for the new addressing protocol.

Consumer gear is often cheap-as-possible garbage that has had as little effort put into it as possible. [0] I know that long after 2012, you could find consumer-grade networking equipment that did not support (or actively broke) IPv6. [1] And how often do we hear complaints of "my ISP-provided router is just unreliable trash, I hate it", or stories of people saving lots of money by refusing to rent their edge router from their ISP? The equipment ISPs give you can also be bottom-of-the-barrel crap that folks actively avoid using. [2]

So, yeah, the stuff at the very edge is often bottom-of-the-barrel trash and is often infrequently updated. That's why it's harder to update the equipment at edge than the equipment in the core. It is way more expensive to update the core stuff, but it's always getting updated, and you're paying enough to get much better quality than the stuff at the edge.

[0] OpenWRT is so, so popular for a reason, after all.

[1] This was true even for "prosumer" gear. I know that even in the mid 2010s, Ubiquiti's UniFi APs broke IPv6 for attached clients if you were using VLANs. So, yeah, not even SOHO gear is expensive enough to ensure that this stuff gets done right.

[2] You do have something of a point in the implied claim that ISPs will update their customer rental hardware with IPv6 support once they start providing IPv6 to their customer. But. Way back when I was so foolish as to rent my cable modem, I learned that I'd been getting a small fraction of the speed available to me for years because my cable modem was significantly out of date. It required a lucky realization during a support call to get that update done. So, equipment upgrades sometimes totally fall through the cracks even with major ISPs.