My experience with the defaults in JavaScript is that they’re pretty slow. It’s really, really easy to hit the limits of an express app and for those limits to be in your app code. I’ve worked on JVM backed apps and they’re memory hungry (well, they require a reallocation for the JVM) and they’re slow to boot but once they’re going they are absolutely ripping fast and your far more likely to be bottlenecked by your DB long before you need to start doing any horizontal scaling.
Fair point on ecosystem decisions, that's basically the thesis of the post. These patterns aren't Java being slow, they're developers (myself included) writing code that looks fine but works against the JVM. Enterprise Java gets a bad rap partly because these patterns compound silently across large codebases and nobody profiles until something breaks.