You can code it yourself in your bespoke app, have your vendor maintain it with their bespoke access control, or let RLS do it. There aren't really any other options that I'm aware of.
Personally, having done the "code it yourself in your bespoke app" it's a PITA and it's generally not nearly as good as RLS. That's what we did before RLS and it sucked.
On top of that, you can do things like SSO, data encryption, etc, but those are not data access layers, those are different layers. We do these things too(tho very little of the data encryption part, since it's such a PITA to make work very reliably even with vault/boa holding the encryption keys for us).
Obviously it's not a silver bullet and the isolation can be confusing when debugging, but generally a single point for your applying RBAC is a feature not a shortcoming. The next level of security might be how you define your roles.
I actually believe the simplest, most secure client scenario is physical isolation, where you give the user/consumer only the data they are allowed to use and then don't try to control it (someone mentioned this above, using parquet & duckdb). There's downsides here too: doesn't work for write scenarios, can be resource intensive or time delayed, doesn't handle chain of custody well, etc. You typically have two strategies:
1. pick the best approach for the specific situation.
2. pick your one tool as your hammer and be a d!ck about it.