I also use the merge tool of JetBrains IDEs such as IntelliJ IDEA (https://www.jetbrains.com/help/idea/resolve-conflicts.html#r...) when working in those IDEs. It uses a three-pane view, not a four-pane view, but there is a menu that allows you to easily open a comparison between any two of the four versions of the file in a new window, so I find it similarly efficient.
No matter the tool, merges should always be presented like that. It's the only presentation that makes sense.
Addendum: I've since long disabled it. A and B changes are enough for me, especially as I rebase instead of merging.