My feelings precisely. Min package age (supported in uv and all JS package managers) is nice but I still feel extremely hesitant to upgrade my deps or start a new project at the moment.
I don’t think this is going to stabilize any time soon, so figuring out how to handle potentially compromised deps is something we will all need to think about.
https://github.com/npm/cli/pull/8965
https://github.com/npm/cli/issues/8994
Its good that that they finally got there but....
I would be avoiding npm itself on principle in the JS ecosystem. Use a package manager that has a history of actually caring about these issues in a timely manner.
(Of course I could still get bitten if one of the packages I trust has its postinstall script replaced.)