You can go back and forth on who did what first but it ultimately accomplishes nothing in this scenario.
You really think someone who just had to bury the mangled, burned corpse of their daughter cares whether it was intentional, or because the US military couldn't be arsed to update the data their targeting system operates on?
And it's not going to end with that one "accident". The war hasn't even really started, and the US military is led by a vaguely human-shaped lump of feces who absolutely will start ordering the intentional bombing of civilian targets and gleefully boast about it once he's starting to feel personally offended by the continued failure of "the Iranians" to submit to his will.
> Why are we even talking about the US accidentally blowing up a school?
Asking that question puts you outside the boundaries of polite conversation, so I'll end with a hearty "may you get what you deserve".
> Asking that question puts you outside the boundaries of polite conversation, so I'll end with a hearty "may you get what you deserve".
Please stop the pearl-clutching.
If you don't want to talk about intentional Iranian atrocities because you're fixated on the United States making a mistake, then I don't think there's much for either of us to talk about.