wouldn't this be solved by synchronously invalidating everything before computing anything? it seems like that's what the described system is doing tbh, since `setValue` does a depth-first traversal before returning. or is there a gap where that strategy fails you?

So yeah topological sorting is one element, but that global stack is a data race! You need to test set inclusion AND insert into it in an ordered way. Global mutex is gross. To do so lock-free could maybe be done with a lock free concurrent priority queue with a pair of monatomic generation counters for the priorities processed then next, then some memo of updates so that the conflicting re-update is invalidated by violation the generation constraint. I see no less than 3 CAS, so updates across a highly contentious system get fairly hairy. But still, a naive approach is good enough for the 99% so let there be glitches!