There are many many of these socially-skilled normies. But, by virtue of being socially skilled, most have already pretty much filled up their social capacity and don't tend to show up at the kind of venues dedicated to helping under-socialized people meet up.

> Between the genuine weirdos, the autistic and/or the neuro-divergent, is there anyone left, really?

Heh this has a total “nobody goes there anymore, it’s too crowded” vibe.

that describes me but i would never say i'm a "superhuman". I feel like i'm a boring glue guy.

While there is often a "normal" (bell-curve fitting) distribution for individual factors, putting them together can be counter-intuitive.

> Even when considering just three dimensions, fewer than 5% of pilots were “average” in all. [1]

I would guess many/most people probably think they fall into either (1) the normal bucket or (変) the weird/fringe bucket. Either "I am pretty normal" or "I am an outsider". How many think "We're all fairly different once you cluster in any 3 interesting dimensions!"?

But people feel that dichotomy, which makes me think it is largely about perception relative to a dominant culture: the in-group versus out-group feeling. For example, atheists might feel like outsiders in many parts of the U.S., but less so in big cities and in other countries. In dense urban walkable cities (like NYC), people see diversity more directly and more often. Seeing a bunch of people is different than seeing a bunch of cars.

[1]: From "Curse of Dimensionality: Lessons from the U.S. Air Force Cockpit Design" by Maciej Nasinski (2025): https://polkas.github.io/posts/cursedim/