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You can’t always control what your children or family do. You are in control of what you buy.
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I have 3 kids and they are still young and I barely control how they behave :) It will be even more terrible later
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You can (and indeed must) control a lot about whether family, especially children, make you happy.

Also many people don't seem to control what they buy.

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The makes sense when you look at the responses themselves.

Children/family are mostly containing answers such as "My son visited me on Mother's Day.", which you can't really cause yourself.

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Of course you can, you just have to cause it years in advance.
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