Sorry, I did not mean it like that, formula is fine. We also hated the breastfeeding mob.

And you're right about the rules they exist for a reason, but I think we should as parents take our space to try what works for us and our kids and what feels right.

Sometimes I just can't grasp how cruel nature is. Imagine no formula -> baby starving and you just have to accept it. When the tribe grows in numbers the baby is safe. When the tribe grows in numbers like mankind, you get cheats like formula and polio vaccine.

We're just replaying the life game on easier mode.