If the kinds survive long enough to outlive their parents as many do now, ask them again how happy they are once their home life transitions into an institutional one.

Yeah thats why all new expecting parents (here in Switzerland at least) have blood checks for exactly this and there is a reason its done before crossing the legal limit for abortion.

Respect to every single parent who does their best for their kids, but raising kids these days in western society is very hard and taxing even in best case scenario.