Members of the military and their families stationed in a foreign country are required to behave as guests of the host country. This is not a joke and is not taken lightly by the command. Also, an officer who cannot control the behavior of his family is not fit to be an officer.
Maybe things have changed since I was a boy, but I hope not.
You can murder 20 people and not even go to jail if you are in the US army in an european base.
https://it.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incidente_della_funivia_del_Ce...