You (presumably) aren't your grandmother, so we have x=/=y. Therefore by the biimplication, (x ≤ y and y ≤ x) is false i.e. either x ≤ y (I am better than my grandmother) or y ≤ x (my grandmother is better than me). The "neither" case is excluded by the law of totality.
We literally said the same thing. It doesn't follow from antisymmetry.
My point is precisely that:
(x <= y /\ y <= x) -> x = y
does not entail
x <= y \/ y <= x
The second statement is totality/comparability, not antisymmetry.