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"Der Computer" is also masculine, so you have probably been calling your computer "he" for decades. Languages with gendered nouns don't quite have the same he/she/it distinction.
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how does that matter if its he, 'she' till its doing the work. Its artificial, shouldnt try to find means of attachment to it
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I mean, both in English and in german, that's how you would talk to a dog. "Er hat in die Ecke gepinkelt"/"He peed in the corner" (or "she", if it's a female dog).

I don't know what is jarring talking about the chatbot like that.

It may be creepier if you said "she wrote that program for me" as you now assign a specific gender to the chatbot.

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It's how you'd talk about a dog that you know the sex of, but if you didn't know you'd probably use "it". An LLM doesn't have a sex or gender, so I think the natural way to refer to them is "it".
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in English, maybe. In German, not really. "Der Bot", "der Robot", "der Computer".
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However, "die AI", "Kuenstliche Intelligenz".
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Also, "Es hat in die Ecke gepinkelt". Which pronoun you use is just as dependent on the context as in english.
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