Not an attorney so I don’t know the details but it is definitely possible to leave the US several months in a row on a J1. When I did it (also as postdoc), it was an involved process that escalated to the (vice?)president’s office to get permission so there are clearly questions the university needed to address...
I didn’t have any visibility into it all but what I was told about regarded taxes mainly (since getting paid abroad).
So technically possible but also a tall ask (I didn’t know at the time of asking and my PI went with it).
I then came back and carried on without any immigration issues.