75th percentile pay doesn't go as far as it used to, tbh. I'm on about that in Western Europe and am looking for more as my costs have increased massively.

And even though I could easily move to London (modulo family) I wouldn't as the wages there are much worse for my specialty.

Honestly based on talking to friends and former colleagues I think you're probably underpaying for many Western European markets, TC of 200k is where it's at now.

I'll leave your attitude comments out as I don't have enough context to reply effectively.

"Am I the problem? No, it must be the employees"