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But all that advice. Never worked out. Be stoic. Be supportive. Be.. to Not to be. Accept that beeing some eldritch gods lunch is your destiny. Stoic is what we expect the cattle to be as it goes up the ramp. Do not go quietly into the night, rage against the dying of the light.
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The great meat grinder doesn't care either way. Stoic or screaming and kicking, you're going in.
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So sayeth a Head of Engineering.
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Aye - I'm marching into it like everyone else, just with a different flavour of pain
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Correct. Stoicism was for two audiences. Those doing the killing to be indifferent toward it and for those being killed to be indifferent about it.

Marcus Aurelius the historical figure was a monster who killed a measurable portion of humans alive at the time

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I mean... so did a lot of other rulers. As far as emperors go, Aurelius wasn't that bad. You have to judge historical people by their peers, not by your own modern standards.
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Strictly speaking nobody has to do anything.
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Stoicness is for the lamb and the wolf alike; mindfulness is for the monk and the samurai killing on behalf of their lord alike.

We are not so one-dimensional that good mind habits are the one and only thing we do and act on.

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But that was a stoic comment.
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