But in this case, I think what it's doing is… basically fine? "Tar should faithfully reproduce the semantics of the source filesystem" is a perfectly reasonable starting point.
Ideally there would be a documented way to turn off the Apple-specific metadata with Apple's own tar, though.
--no-mac-metadata
(x mode only) Mac OS X specific. Do not archive or extract ACLs
and extended file attributes using copyfile(3) in AppleDouble
format. This is the reverse of --mac-metadata. and the default
behavior if tar is run as non-root in x mode.