I think the most commonly-accepted definition of "vibe coding" is when you "forget that the (generated) code even exists"[0]. So vibe-ness entirely hinges upon whether you're manually reviewing. If you make/prompt changes based on what you observe in the generated code (rather than only based on runtime behavior), then you're not "vibe coding".
I think the other things you mentioned are orthogonal to vibe-ness.