Consent is involved, everyone is a volunteer and willing participant. If you don’t want a hug or kiss or whatever you don’t get one. I fail to understand how this makes it anything but “free hugs”
replyDoesn't the post read that it's the server who would give you the kiss, if you compliment them three times?
replyAlso, volunteer is not the same as employee. Especially important in this context.
I read it as if you pay 2 compliments and then proceed to kiss / spank the employee you would also get a compliment in addition to whatever you ordered. And that compliment would give you an extra pep in your step.
reply> order hugs ranging from warm + fuzzy to long + uncomfortable, each for 2 compliments to your server
replyAny one of these is either: 2 compliments from customer. So, it would be assumed that compliments are going from the customer, to the server, for the extras as well. Instead of the whole dynamic switching around halfway through.
> Add a kiss or a spanking for an additional compliment
Customer can add a kiss or spanking to their order, if they give an additional compliment to the server. And the server then decides if they actually want to do it.
Are you somehow operating under the impression that volunteers are being held against their will and forced to give and/or receive free kisses to anyone who demands it?
replyAre you okay?
Would you think it would be okay if someone got raped as long as they weren't being held down against their will? Just because the person doesn't leave, that doesn't mean they consent.
replyYou’ve already managed to completely ignore multiple people who’ve tried their best to clear up your colossal and frankly easily avoidable misunderstanding of this situation. So by all means, don’t let me stop you from crashing out over an entirely imagined series of circumstances.
replySomething's either literally stated or suggested. It can't be both, but it can be neither.
replyWhat is wrong with you. This isn’t a customer/employee thing at all. That’s, like, the entire point of Burning Man.
replyFeel free to mentally substitute your own words for the titles used of the two people when ordering and delivering services from another.
reply...you ask. Just like you would for the spanking.
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