I just read:
> If I had learned one thing from my past life was that if you see the signs of an abusive relationship, you have the option to walk out, and you don't, all that follows is your own fault.
so... :)
https://eng121.net/online%20textbook/cause-effect/The%20Wall...
If you flee domestic violence you are more likely than not to lose custody of your children to your abuser.
That's because joint custody is the default and you need to have really good evidence when you want to restrict a kids access to their father.
> If you flee domestic violence you are more likely than not to lose custody of your children to your abuser.
"Being forced to allow kids to see their father" is, to you, the same as "losing custody of your children"?
You're talking absolute horse puckey here. I'm also pretty certain you don't believe it.
No matter what you may think of parents, it is absolutely horrific that someone will argue for restricting the rights of children, and do it in a way that he feels is acceptable in society (custody is only in small part about having access to one's children; the actual right is to the child, not the parent - the child has the right to access to their parent).
I wanted to make him understand that trampling over children's rights is not acceptable.