What is the offensive launch that can destroy 60 000 satellites in one mission? I don't think it exists.
Its will ruin it for everyone, but Russia or China is certainly able to do that.
Even in Russian nationalist circles, the occassional idea of shooting down current Starlink satellites is usually met with derision from the rest of the discussion group (see, for example, topwar.ru comments). That is just step too far, too dangerous.
Meanwhile, on Earth, you have a lot of plausible deniability. "Some terrorist group sneaked in and planted a bomb, totally not our people."