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I also learned in an awkward way that waving my hand next to my cheek isn't an international sign for lekker. I moved to Canada about 20 years ago, and still sometimes do it, but apparently here it means you're signaling that someone is a little bit crazy.
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Now I wonder if mixed Italian-Dutch children have two different forms of communication by gestures. Would be interesting, especially since neither are true sign languages.
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Eating only half a pepernoot and putting it back in the bowl is crazy behavior.

In this case the gesture is to not speak with a mouth full of food, which is understandable.

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Also, she made the gesture twice without saying "mmmmm" while making it. Imo, that sound is part of the gesture.
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Italians have a gesture for this as well, and it speaks for itself: nobody says "mmmm" while doing it.
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Needs the sound! Otherwise, even other Dutch people will look crazy at you. :)
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