The innovation points you spend on this should generally be spent in other areas, not seeing if someone's unproven db is your breadwinner.
Oh, that's the reason the SurrealDB operator was here in the first place because I need the full K8S lifecycle to maintain the database state such as backing up, that is not really doable with Helm.
No one should pick us because we're the new hot thing (at least I'd hope not). But at SurrealDB, we've got real enterprises in production at scale. For a lot of startups building today, having LLM/vector features, graph, auth, and the database in one place can really help you ship faster without stitching a bunch of tools together.
As a former DBA I got to see the general purpose databases bolt on a lot of shitty addons, and a lot of upstarts build just enough to get the sale done (or targeting bigger customers than I) - I hope y'all can get enough polish and reliability done and grow into something I want to use in five years :)