I agree and I prefer on-prem where possible. The Apple Mac Studios have been great for that although I don't have enough of them to run GLM-5.2 without heavy quantization. I'm also waiting for the Apple next product refresh which I hope will enable me to do more with less.
Meanwhile there are hosted privacy-conscious options out there. Two names to look at are Tinfoil[1] and Privatemode (from Edgeless Systems)[2].
Tinfoil[1] is, sadly, US-based. EU-sovereignty-option is on their long-term radar. But they do have GLM-5.2 today.
Privatemode[2] is a German company (Edgeless Systems) with EU-based servers. But sadly no GLM-5.2 today, it is on their mid-long term radar though.
Both Tinfoil and Privatemode operate on the same concept of the LLM operating in a secure enclave and you have end-to-end attestation and encryption.
Tinfoil have not been independently audited, it is somewhere on their long-term radar.
Privatemode have been thoroughly independently audited with documentation available on request.
Both of them are API-tokens-only. So if you're currently one of those people throwing $200 a month down the pan at Anthropic/OpenAI for a so-called-alleged 'unlimited' plan, then neither Tinfoil or Privatemode will be the place for you.
I have this feeling that it'll be very expensive and still scarce. Normally I wouldn't say this about Apple, because their pricing is part of their brand, but this time the demand (both by data-centers and prosumers) is the force majeure.
I know people usually say that about Apple, but to be fair to them on this occasion they have not hiked up their prices yet because they are clearly at present still under some old deals that they did a good job negotiating.
However, of course, at some point Apple will run out of both inventory and old-pricing manufacturing capacity. Yes, I am fully expecting some sort of price-hike like has been seen everywhere else. I am not naïve.
When that time comes it will remain a financial calculation, Apple boxes on one side versus hosted-option-costs on another, in relation to my specific use-cases.
Ultimately I still blame the chip-hoarding hyperscalers though. :)