Back in the 90s when I was in university, SQL (and databases in general) sounded like a boring topic that appealed to people who wanted to go into accounting/finance or some consultancy. I didn't study CS to learn to use an application! So, I took other practical curriculum options like operating systems, compiler writing, and graphics.

Then I went off and did distributed systems and HPC work for a decade or two, and the closest I got to "databases" was when we had to interact with LDAP. But, eventually our R&D contracts shifted and we were mixing with bioinformatics people. Then, we had a need for structured metadata management, and RDBMS seems like the right tool. So I finally had a reason to teach myself SQL, with a range of OLTP and analytics sorts of workloads on PostgreSQL.

I have found the existing ORMs in our Python landscape to be really alien and off-putting. I much prefer using the lower-level DB connector and doing my own SQL query building. We also do a bunch of generic/polymorphic work, defeating the main theses of ORMs. Mostly, our schemas are not known at development time, rather they change dynamically. There is no sense in mapping schema to classes, since a developer would have no contact with such classes. Instead, our code has to do "metaprogramming" about table definitions, keying, and reference patterns at runtime.

My first job was at a financial services software company. They put everyone through multiple weeks of training on sql. That experience has been paying dividends for 25 years.

It should be table stakes for any SWEs working on backend, but it's not. The DB and the code directly interacting with it are way more important than anything you're going to write on top. I keep ending up in situations where I'm the only SWE in the room who really knows SQL, let alone proper schema design, and I have to speak up or else they're going to build an abomination.

Still applies today in data science, one is expected to master SQL alongside Python and Excel.

It's very strange too. You can learn something like ~90% of useful SQL in an afternoon. The remainder is stuff that you only really need for extremely performance sensitive operations

    > You can learn something like ~90% of useful SQL in an afternoon.