Nothing to do with the certs just told me a cert error because it never finished the handshake.
I tested through Tor on multiple machines now and multiple circuits and is working clean - thanks for the heads up.
The irony is, you don't actually need Tor on my site because there is no logging, no third parties, no adtech etc. it is just static HTML files - so whereas I would normally recommend Tor I designed the site specifically to be privacy first.
I will try to figure out what is going on though because obviously I am fully supportive of people protecting their privacy with Tor.
I will investigate.