If you go small enough it should be no problem. For example Gemma 4 E4B in Q6 or Q4 quantization should run well on your laptop. It shouldn't be too taxing, but would still want to eat 7-9 GB of VRAM or so.
Now that model is mostly useful for writing or chatting.
You need more RAM, plus the models take up a lot of space. 32gb min but I’d recommend 48/64gb, you won’t get close to frontier but it’s still fun to play with, images are very good
heating up is normal, that cannot be avoided. it should become laggy, but you just have very little RAM (I assume 16 GB?) So most models are too big with other stuff running.