So while I partly agree with you, a lot of companies don't really need HA, read replicas, or even PITR (though I would argue the last one is so trivial and cheap to enable that why not), but they click the expensive check box, and I would argue that companies who do need these features should consider hiring at least a couple of DBAs and get more flexibility instead of the current status quo of everyone being scared of the database and everyone just hoping cloud support will come to their rescue if ever needed
Every place I’ve ever worked at that had DBAs had the complete opposite of more flexibility. You have to do things the DBA’s way, and if their way doesn’t work for your service, you need to fight for their time and priority.
Meanwhile every place I worked at where every team completely owned their databases + did periodic data recovery drills had much more flexibility and no data loss.
My personal experience has been the opposite of yours: lots of data inconsistency issues, data loss only resolved by the database team spinning up backups, etc. And somehow, even after yet another incident, there’s never been appetite to properly fix things.
Obviously "let RDS manage your database" doesn't require egregious read replicas. The decision to use read replicas or not is completely orthogonal to whether you use RDS to manage them.
Of course not, but an easy checkbox, a best practice AWS or terraform guide and someone doing AWS certified X associate makes it easier to happen without anyone ever really discussing it.
> The decision to use read replicas or not is completely orthogonal to whether you use RDS to manage them.
Assuming you're talking about letting RDS manage anything, then sure - apart from it being more likely to slip through the net if nobody has to configure them. Database is just an expensive cost nobody necessarily drills into.
However if you mean the decision to let $cloud manage the replicas (and keep the primary managed), that totally depends on the cloud and the options. For example have you ever tried having a primary in GCP Cloud SQL but the replica not in cloud SQL?
I'm defending your employer or their mindset, I'm just disagreeing with your claim that this follows from the parent's cost analysis claims. It _seems_ like your organization's problems are precisely because they _weren't_ doing the kind of cost analysis that the parent advocated. In other words, nothing in the parent's comment advocated for blindly following some Terraform guide. It feels unfair to the parent to suggest that their mindset caused your organization problems when it seems like your organization's problems were caused by _not having_ the parent's mindset.