Thanks! I should have clarified - we haven't been using this pattern for selective joins. Strongly agreed that pulling down extra data into memory and then doing the filtering doesn't make much sense. We've found it useful in the case where it's hard to write a query where the planner _does_ make good decisions because of the complexity of the join conditions (e.g. joins using cases, a boolean "or", or something similar).

Also, to re-emphasize: we do this rarely, but it's been helpful the times we've done it