I'd also argue whether ORMs actually save that much time in practice. In Java, for example, the main time sink is the JDBC plumbing and its easy to use something like JDBI that handles that plumbing without abstracting away the underlying SQL.

The application->database layer is pretty impactful and it pays to pay attention to it, because poor access patterns will cause a lot of trouble in the future, and its made worse by not having a very accurate understanding of whats going on in that layer.

I think a lot of developers don't have a good sense on where their time sinks actually are. Boilerplate is not pleasant to write but also not the timeline-destroyer people tend to think it is. And its often not enough of a time-sink to warrant introducing "magic" that will have very large negative future impacts.