It was only the right side results of the experience that needed to be refetched when the form changed.
But in HTMX, you are expected to just send the whole dang thing back for every change. Makes sense for a like-button, a dialog, or even a classic form submission.
My refactor cut the HTML response by about 70kb and that made a big difference. The form became fully static and I had a simple Alpine data component that would just sync that state with the URL. Still used a GET on the form and still used the same partial endpoint. Just way less HTML to wait for.
I'd also question architectural decisions if you need to send 100kb+ of html down the wire for a partial.