In my experience the solution is often to use the appropriate architecture underneath your UI layer. Basically you build a data structure that represents your UI and always hand this entire structure to the declarative UI layer. Underneath the UI layer, you can still use imperative code to manipulate the data structures. The benefit of the reactive/declarative approach is that you don't have to think about how changes in the data need to be reflected in the UI. That's the framework's job.
Note: With "data structure" I don't mean "build a shadow DOM". I mean something specialized to your use case.
In SwiftUI, that means endless chains of modifiers, and in Compose this means monstrous constructors and modifier chains. Both get really ugly and painful to read quickly, and there's not a lot that can be done about it apart from breaking everything out into smaller views (which only goes so far). The amount of boilerplate saved isn't worth the trade, in my opinion.
In an imperative setup, there's still a lot of code but there are more options for organization, readability, and overall clarity. One can break things up with comments, break out setup into functions with self-explanatory names (that the IDE can then quick jump to, as a bonus), etc.
Yes, it's easier to get tripped up with imperative frameworks if one isn't thoughtful with managing their data, but much of the time that code only needs to be gotten right once.
And because of the open source nature you can always drop down in layers, just a few weeks ago I made a very specific engine optimization, all while the application code on-top can stay declarative!
It also doesn't fix problems inherent to declarative UI, like readability breaking down easily and certain things that would be a cinch in an imperative framework being extremely awkward to implement.