As I said, I don't have a good mnemonic worked out yet for remembering which "key day of the week" goes with which year. But the human mind remembers trauma, and I will probably never forget that September 11, 2001 was a Tuesday. (I clearly remember arriving at work and being asked "Did you hear about the plane crashes?" — both had happened during my 30-minute walk to the office). Which gives me a fixed point I can always calculate from: September 4th, 2001 was a Tuesday, so September 5th was a Wednesday. That means 2001's key day of the week was a Wednesday, and then I can work forward from there: 2002 = Thu, 2003 Fri, 2004 Sun. Then I can add five days for every four years: 2008 Fri, 2012 Wed, 2016 Mon, 2020 Sat, 2024 Thu. Then 2025 Fri, 2026 Sat, and I'm back to current year.
That's not a great mnemomic, because it takes me quite a while to work back up to the current year from 2001. If anyone can think of a better mnemonic, please let me know.
Where I have used it more often is when I am wondering "what day of the week will Christmas be this year?" or "what day of the week will my birthday fall on this year?". It's nice to be able to work those out mentally without pulling up a calendar app and tapping "next month" multiple times. But even that is a rare occurrence.
Personally whenever someone asks me if I'm available on some date, or what I'm doing at a specific day or whatever, almost never does it matter what day of the week is, it's more about what things I have planned, and for that I have to open the calendar regardless as events beyond 1+ week horizon is quickly filled into my "Blank" cabinet in the brain.
Not saying it isn't useful in the sense that avoiding these tiny hassles of "open calendar, find the date, look up what weekday" isn't worth it, I've unexplicitly trained myself to be ambidextrous for no real purpose except "that's neat", so I'd understand it, I'm mostly curious about actual usefulness of this in other's daily life, as seemingly my own looks very different from the ones where this'd be useful.
I have a mobile-friendly web-app where you can practice this technique, just click the link in the page's nav: "Weekle - Weekday Guessing Game"
It takes me way too long and I still have to use my fingers nowadays