Where it loses me is Cargo and everything surrounding it. I'm essentially forced into an extreme where I just never use anything in the Rust ecosystem, or I have to deal with insane dependency graphs that have the density and microstate complexity of a neutron star.
> Where it loses me is Cargo and everything surrounding it.
High praise!
What? Its just a programming language. Go dependency free if you want. Or vendor everything. Nobody is forcing you to pull in 3rd party dependencies.
People weaponizing Rust rewrites with permissive licenses is another problem, but it's not about the programming language itself.