Maybe your headcannon should be that apes did a "tower of babel" type thing to make all the octopus individualistic and unable to organize into a civilization
[1] - https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/octopus-city-obser...
Almost all octopuses are cannibalistic but Abdopus have also been found living close to and tolerating each other
They don’t raise their offspring