Not only that, but I know from my parents generation that small hold farm work is brutal an naturally leads to certain dynamics that contemporary Americans would find quite objectionable. When a bad harvest could starve your family directions are never polite requests and norms are very strictly enforced.
reply> norms are very strictly enforced
replyAnd now norms are not enforced at all, and look at who we have in the white house. This is why we can't have nice things.