They're maybe nearest to Cthulhu, but that's fictional. In terms of existing mental models "alien minds" feels the best can do.
I agree that "teach how to love" is off and perhaps excessively anthropomorphic. But we don't have good words or concepts for what we really need to do - hence why we should pause.
acting like the behavior is alien or unexplained is the dishonest part. they know exactly where the behavior comes from - why else spend hundreds of millions securing more and more data sources
openai "knew" about scaling law for a decade now and still can't fully explain it, why you think they are dishonest here?