How about a choice: both "no, maybe later" and "no, never"
replyAnd "no, never" would irreversibly remove the option from settings?
replyIt would never prompt again.
replyThat's is the same as what "Not now" and "Maybe later" would (should) do.
replyOnly "ask me again later" is the one that prompts you again. That's why I do mind that one, and appreciate the other ones.
A much better way would be “Yes” and “No” with a small message of “you can change this later in the Settings”.
replyOr have three buttons: “Yes”, “No”, “Remind me Later”. Apple does stuff like that in other parts of the OS, like when asking for app permissions, so they clearly know how to do it.
"Remind me later" means "bug me again with a dialog in the future", which is not what I want. I don't need to be reminded, but if I change my mind in the future, I want to be able to proactively go and change it.
replyYes, more text can be another way to provide the message, but if you've ever done any user testing, you'll know that people at best scan through your UI. I know I wouldn't read that, or at least would prefer not to have to read that.
I guess I don't see why "No" combined with "You can change this later in settings" is so much less offensive than "Not now".