Manual safety or not is a real debate among people who carry pistols for self defense and law enforcement, and no manual safety is the majority position. The reasoning is that an extra step when the user needs the pistol in an emergency is problematic, a properly designed pistol can only fire if the trigger is pulled, and a properly designed holster makes pulling the trigger impossible until the pistol is drawn. Nobody seriously advocates carrying an unloaded pistol for those purposes, and only lunatics advocate having people who don't know what they're doing carry pistols.

It's not a great analogy to Wordpress, which attempts to provide as much capability as possible in a CMS while requiring as little expertise from the user as possible. Vanilla Wordpress, kept up to date is pretty safe. Plugins are just a click away though, and using plugins safely requires evaluating each plugin's risk profile and track record individually, which is real sysadmin work.