I'm very impressed with this.
Re: chopsticks, oh but it can! It can roll one chopstick between one pair of grippers. Do that while holding the tip against a fixed object and you'll tilt the chopstick. Once you get the tips touching, it can use them.
The motors are inside those chonky things just outside the fingertips. I'm guessing hobby servos, which are tiny cheap and strong.
The balancing there comes from the wrist joint, not the fingers. Obviously this device is supposed to be mounted on a wrist joint that can rotate (pitch+yaw). Wrist joints are pretty well-understood these days.
Rounded handle I don't see the problem unless the hole is too small for one of the fingers.
And the bowl has a radius that make orthogonal grip impractical.