The guy you're arguing with made the mistake of switching to metaphors. The result is several back and forth posts, and neither mutual understanding nor useful discussion.

To avoid metaphors: There's an implicit assumption that when you install a piece of software, it will not fuck up your data/system without your consent. No, installing it is not consent, neither is using it. Neovim does exactly that. No amount of food analogies or license quotes will change that fact.

Neovim authors should've just used a separate file, just like they're happy to use separate format and files for the configuration. Instead, they've decided to be dickheads, and interfere with vim's file, even after the issue being pointed out to them.