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My mother was a stay at home mom and at least from my perspective she never seemed isolated but that seemed to be because there were many other stay at home moms on our block. We basically knew everyone on our block that had kids, which was most of them back then. I distinctly remember all the time we spent at our neighbours' houses for combination play dates and card games. Us kids would play inside or outside and the moms would play cards and socialize. There were always people coming and going and it felt like the entire block was a sort of extended family. I don't remember many organized dinner parties but that could just be from being a small child at the time so we weren't up late and didn't spend time sitting at the "adult table" when there were gatherings (we'd be fed something and then go play with the other kids in the basement or another room).
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> If you are at home with a kid, you are truly absolutely alone, unless you organize something.

There are parks, splash pads, playgrounds—plenty of places where parents naturally gather without needing to be organized.

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You meet other parents at those and then organize play dates or social events I would think, though?
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You absolutely can, but you can also just show up and meet the people that are there.
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