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100%. And this has been repeated generation after generation. Its just that in the past 50 years we have started caring and being kind towards ourselves and it has shown tangible results in the progress of human civilization as a whole.

But some regions/cultures are lagging (but catching up fast) as per my experience living in 5 states across 3 countries spanning two very different continents.

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What about before? When and why did we stop caring I wonder.
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A diagnosis did not alter my thinking in this regard whatsoever. That's part of what I was saying I don't understand.
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The main issue with undiagnosed ADHD is, that people assume they can solve your issues with ideas don't work for people with ADHD.

So, your life is sprinkled with unhelpful people that mean well but think you're just not listening to them.

And you yourself think, your too dumb or lazy or whatever to get things done consistently.

The you find out it's ADHD and you learn different methods to get things done. Which is nice.

But it's also very sad if that happens years after childhood. Because you realise, you might had a more successful life if you knew earlier

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> A diagnosis did not alter my thinking in this regard whatsoever.

YMMV, maybe other individuals need confirmation/closure on the topic in their lives to help them move onto the next chapter? Knowledge is power.

(Post-comment reflection: this is needed in a lot of other aspects in life, why not here as well?)

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Other humans brains work differently than yours. What didn’t work for you did work for them.
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What does a diagnosis have to do with any of that? How is that a whole other bag worms, that’s exactly the topic at hand.
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This logic doesn't make sense though. What does "learning you don't suck" mean? You still do "suck" but whatever definition was being used at the time. You still didn't do your homework or stay calm in class, that actually happened. It had consequences.

The only way it does make sense is if you think the consequences should be different because some doctor give it a name. But then you say nobody should have been treated that way regardless of the diagnoses. If the diagnoses doesn't matter why does it matter?

As someone who definitely has dealt with all this for my entire life I've found it much easier to just focus on behavior and consequences and alternatives. Trying to place it all in a moral/medical framework is a black hole. If your actions hurt others or otherwise have negative results you have to address that.

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